I've not done a very good job of nurturing myself over the past decade or so. Recently I've tried to make a portion of my life more "about me". I guess this is not a bad thing after having grown up as an only child. We are often labeled selfish and I've definitely gone overboard in proving that this is an untrue generalization.
Here's some affirmation and advice from Beliefnet.com which I will share and try to follow myself.